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Parental Leave - Last Day

Today is the last day of my parental leave - sob, sob, it's back to work tomorrow for a week, before I jump on a jet plane headed for the land of pork pies, bass lager, and driving on the left side of the road - England. I bet your heart bleeds for me.

My last day, as - full time baby minder for our 2 year old yelling machine, diaper changer for our 2 week old, and general "go to guy" for my recovering wife - started with a visit to the pediatrician for Isabella's 2 week check up. I have to hand it to my wife, who looks after our kids on a full time basis, while I normally work the "office" role.  Even the most simplistic task of waiting in the reception area of our local doctor's office can be challenging with a toddler, who is no more willing to sit still and be quiet than I am prepared to saw off one of my own testicles and eat it.  Bribing said child with snacks and reading material only lasted so long, as did rearranging of the magazine rack into a chaos order. In the end, Simon and I settled on running the hallway, outside our doctor's office from one stairwell door to another. I had to laugh as Simon was investigating the door handle to one of the stairwell doors (he cannot open doors just yet, just reach the handle), when someone opened the door and came through. I've not seen him jump quite so high before.

After leaving the pediatrician, we stopped off at Target for a spot of shopping. Simon and I headed over to the adjacent kids play park while Lisa and Isabella went to procure a birthday present (we've been invited to a kids party this weekend), and to look for baby items.  Simon and I didn't play long, the play park, geared for 5 and above, was not at all safe for a 2 year old (hence the 5 years and above warning I guess), and was teaming with kids. I was very uncomfortable with the high jungle gym, with slide at one end and 6 foot drop the at the other with only a fireman's pole for descent. What made it hard was that the gym was encased in solid wood paneling, and not the typical see-through iron bars, so I couldn't see Simon once he climbed to the top. Running around to either end of gym in 90 degree F weather on the off chance that  a bounding 5 year old was to knock Simon off the edge was not my idea of fun. This coupled with someone else's 5 year old informing me, in high pitched squeal, that Simon was not supposed to be playing here was enough dissuade me from playing much longer. So we went to find Mom and daughter in the store. I did manage to find a couple of pairs of Jeans in Target ($12.99 - my kind of price for Jeans), which fit, so I left the store happy.

Back home, and a break for lunch and a quick nap (okay, Simon and Isabella napped. Lisa and I watched ER reruns).

I have been promising to erect Lisa's vertical frame for her garden for a while now, so I finally dragged the ladder out to the back of the garden in the PM, and attempted to construct the frame - made from gas pipes. I naively thought that the outside temperature would have dropped by late afternoon/evening, but no, I was sweating through my clothing whilst using every ounce of effort I could muster to bury the pipes 2 feet into the ground (most of our back yard has buried rock below the turf).  Standing on an unstable ladder and coupling ill fitting gas pipes together in humid weather was not the highlight of the day, but my mood soon returned to placid from irate once the job was complete.  The whole time I was out their swinging from pipes, Simon was having fun soaking himself with the garden hose - who is the sensible one here?.

Finished reading "Gone for Good", by Harlan Coben, this evening - an interesting mystery with a great twist at the end.
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Published Thursday, July 07, 2005 12:31 AM by Rob Garrett

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MommyCool said:

We all have to work (be it at home with kids or for a boss). Just be sure to work at home with the kids when you return from the outside world. You'll find those first few moments you return home each day the most rewarding (best job on the planet!).
July 7, 2005 9:32 AM
 

Rob Garrett said:

Totally, I live for the time when I walk in the door after work, and my 2 year old runs up to me saying "Daddy, Daddy, Daddy!"

Most of my post was in jest (although truthful about the job of looking after children being more difficult than it looks). I love my kids and would never give them up for an easier life.
July 7, 2005 9:50 AM

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Rob Garrett is a British Expat living in Maryland USA. Rob is a trained software engineer and experienced in Windows .NET development.

Rob enjoys listening to Rock music, posting to blogs, driving in the country with the sunroof open, beer (not in conjunction with country driving) and spending time with his family.

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